The midst of the festive season’s glittering splendour can magnify feelings of loneliness. For many, the emphasis on cherished family moments and meaningful gatherings can stir feelings of isolation and inadequacy. Those without a robust network of loved ones might find themselves grappling with a sense of not measuring up, feeling adrift amidst the season’s […]
Family estrangement can be incredibly difficult to navigate. Whether this has been initiated by yourself or your family, cutting ties with your family of origin is never a decision taken lightly. Feelings of guilt, grief and sorrow can often accompany this experience. These emotions can be exacerbated by cultural or national celebration times, such as […]
Grief is an unavoidable part of any life which includes love, connection, hopes and future plans. Simply put, we do not grieve things we do not care about. The experience of grief could in many ways be defined as a byproduct of love. Psychologist Dr Colin Murray Parkes describes the relationship between love and grief […]
Trainer, speaker to universities and charity organisations, therapist and author, Julia Pugh is a couples and psychosexual therapist, with over 15 years of experience working in various medical settings. Julia is dual-trained as a Member of the Institute of Psychosexual Medicine (IPM), a qualified COSRT member and a BACP member. Julia works in the NHS and […]
Relationships are at the core of human existence, and yet they can be the source of our deepest struggles and pain. Whether it’s romantic, familial, or platonic, our relationships shape our lives in profound ways. When we encounter difficulties in our relationships, it can be overwhelming and isolating. That’s where counselling comes in. It offers […]
Intimacy and the Effects of Technology It is no surprise that technology has taken over the globe in just the past few decades, changing the way we live, work, socialise and develop relationships. But we are now in an age of tech where we have seen everything so easily available on the internet from pornography […]
What is Infidelity? What is infidelity? What percentage of people cheat? Is cheating a dealbreaker? Cheating, or being unfaithful, can be both physical and emotional. It can happen when someone breaks a commitment to be exclusive with their partner, either sexually or emotionally. People may have different ideas about what counts as cheating, like one […]
Codependency in Relationships Codependency in relationships is an unhealthy partnership where one feels they cannot be without the other person and the other person often takes advantage. Key themes in codependent relationships often involve fear of abandonment and lack of boundaries. Codependency is a learned behaviour based on unconscious false beliefs, often springing from our […]
Martina Bador has worked as a therapist for over 15 years. Her work has an integrative approach, with person-centred foundations. In this question-and-answer session, she discusses her background and the inspirations for her work. Why did you become a Therapist? I used to work in speech and language, primarily this involved working with parents. I […]
How, in the aftermath of the Depp and Heard Trial, less people would be inclined to reach out when in an abusive relationship? Unless you have been living under a rock in the past few months, it is highly likely that the hysteria surrounding the Depp and Heard trial has flowed into your awareness. Whether […]
