Category: Relationship Counselling


The Illusion of Love: Understanding Limerence in Modern Relationships

In today’s world of modern dating, where relationships are often undefined, communication is constant, and emotional availability can feel uncertain, many people find themselves caught in an experience they struggle to identify, yet deeply feel.This experience has a name: limerence. A powerful psychological state often described as obsessive infatuation or intense romantic attraction, where longing […]

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Trust Issues and Public Distrust: How Loss of Faith in Government Affects Relationships and Mental Health

In recent years, trust in government, media, and public systems has declined across many societies. Headlines frequently highlight corruption, misinformation, political polarisation, and systemic failure.But beyond the political landscape, something more subtle and far-reaching is shifting: a change in how safe, predictable, and trustworthy the world itself feels.These trust issues are often framed as political […]

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What Is Micro-Cheating? Signs, Examples and How to Heal

A Guide to Understanding and Addressing Micro-Cheating Micro-cheating is a relatively new term used to describe subtle behaviours that, while not overtly unfaithful, can lead to emotional distress or the erosion of trust within a relationship. While some view cheating as physical acts, others see emotional or digital behaviours such as flirting, messaging, or liking […]

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Relationship OCD: The Impossible Quest for the Perfect Partner

When we find ourselves romantically drifting into starry-eyed imaginings of movie-perfect knights in shining armour (or, for some of us, the ideal woman swooping in like Julia Roberts in Notting Hill or John Cusack standing under our bedroom window holding up a boombox), the idea of a perfect romance or “the one” doesn’t seem so […]

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Infidelity – Crossroad of Crisis and Opportunities

Infidelity is often perceived as a relationship’s death toll, a betrayal so deep that it seems to shatter everything a couple has built together. But what if infidelity, as painful as it is, doesn’t have to spell the end of a relationship? What if it could be the beginning of a new chapter that requires […]

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Relationship and Family Therapy for Expats in Japan

For the growing community of expats in Japan, the experience is often both rich and challenging, and it’s important to recognise that neither experience undermines or negates the other. Japan is renowned for its efficient public services, high levels of safety, beautiful clean spaces and delicious cuisine. These aspects undoubtedly contribute to a high quality […]

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Trauma Bonds: When Relationships Become Toxic

What are trauma bonds? The term “trauma bond” has entered popular terminology in recent years. On social media, a common phenomenon occurs where psychology terms go “viral” and, over the journey of hundreds or even thousands of videos and millions of viewers, the terms become flattened into a digestible, often two-dimensional version of their original […]

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